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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t bother Op. don’t bother talking about feelings with someone who clearly doesn’t want to nor can handle it. He’s emotionally stunted.

Focus on yourself, your kids, your friends & family, your career and activities.

Outsource the cooking, cleaning, yard work.

You’ll still have to do all the household’s thinking, organizing, planning, problem solving.

View you spouse as dim-witted arm candy.

Consider changing your PoA and health decisions to someone who gives a damn and is reliable.

Teach your kids to set boundaries w “takers”. [/quote]

To be sure, this kind of attitude is likely why he is detached in the first place. Men withdraw when their women henpeck, nag, and make it obvious they "view" them as "dim-witted." Who would want to engage with such a person if you're being treated that way?[/quote]

You think you have a chicken and egg problem PP, lame deflection. You do not.

To be sure, this kind of attitude is likely why SHE is now detached. Women withdraw when their “man” is a slob, “can’t remember things,” and is unreliable and thus disrespectful all facets. And make it obvious that they don’t care about anyone except themselves. 
Who would want to engage with someone if you’re being treated that way?[/quote]

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