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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you're divorcing a narc, I'd move out and officially separate and then wait at least a year before you engage in settlement talks with them. Otherwise, you're very likely to agree to settlement terms that you'll regret once you've got some emotional distance from the narc. My sense is that people married to narcs don't realize how much their thinking is clouded by the narc and it takes time to really get a good perspective on the situation. And ideally, do a lump sum payment to the narc so that you aren't required to keep interacting with them for years and years. You need a clean break and that won't happen if they are lurking around for decades collecting your money every month. My friend divorced about two years ago and he can now see that she was controlling him during the divorce negotiations and he allowed himself to be taken advantage of by her. As I see it, he signed those papers when he wasn't in his right mind, but no court will undo it now. [/quote] Your “friend” sounds like a narcissist who regrets giving their ex the money they deserve from their lifetime together.[/quote]

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