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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would say for me, it depends on what was done. Like, did you sleep with his best friend? It’s not ideal, but also what are the circumstances.

To say never and pearl clutch, makes me think you and/or your spouse live pretty cushy lives without much stress. People with poverty, mental illness, family stress, physical illness etc in the family may go through intense moments of stress… couple any of that with addictions, cheating, etc and you might see something different.[/quote]

Everyone has stress in their lives.  Everyone is human.  
What’s more likely is that people just don’t really display a lot of emotion, keep things under wraps, and don’t ever discuss issues that might upset the other person.  
I mean, there are literally people on this board saying that they are sexless but otherwise happy.  Or that they or their spouse are having an affair but they are in an otherwise good marriage.  
If you make avoiding conflict the top priority in your relationship, you really can just never fight.  If you both agree to it, you can literally deflect and ignore any problems that you have until one of you dies.  [/quote]

Fighting and certainly disagreeing does not require name-calling.

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No, it doesn’t. But the point is that every marriage and relationship has its imperfections, and as long as the fights are balanced and not abusive (like the example above), telling your partner they’re being a prick/ass/B or whatever is not that big of a deal. I’m not a snowflake. My dh and I talk things out, but we definitely have each had our hot moments. [/quote]

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