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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]51 M who didn’t leave and stayed for the kids.  The years I have invested with the kids have been great, but I regret every minute of the marriage.  [b]I am not an ahole or addict, just a guy who apparently became too safe for a SAHM to stay faithful.[/b]  I wish I had left before and am filing early next year.

Hopefully, I can find someone who can love me after ~20 years of loneliness and now having a STD from my kids Dear Mom.   I will never get my life back, but maybe I can build a new one before I die.  If not, at least I will no longer dread coming home.  [/quote]
With all due respect, sounds like you haven’t done the work yet. I have said as much to two of my female friends who play victim 100% of the time after their DHs cheated too. [/quote]

They are victims.

But it sounds like this man burned his feelings and it ate away at him. (Not to mention how damaging it must have been for their kids to grow up with this sad dynamic.)

Everyone should get therapy if they live through the trauma of infidelity.[/quote]

Thank you for hearing what I was trying to say.  [/quote]

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