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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, just wanted to check in with you and see how the first Christmas/ new years ended up going. I hope it was okay. [/quote] Hi! It was really peaceful in a way I couldn’t have anticipated. We had the best time and there was no walking on eggshells or guilt trips or dark moods clouding happy days. STBX kept his distance, and that part was terrifying because it always means there’s punishment coming. January 5th brought a week of motions and letters from his attorney. I’ll get through it. I can’t control his behavior or how he uses the legal system so I’m focused on every day with my kids being as nice as it can be while it can. [/quote] Good for you, OP! Even if you do end up sharing Christmas in the future - which is of course a distinct possibility, barring your ex's agreement that he doesn't want Christmas, or the court not granting him any physical custody- I am glad you guys had a peaceful one this year. [/quote]
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