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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]$1k a night is bizarre. And a brand new house for you guys? What does your spouse think?

I can rent a huge hamptons house for $40k a month in summer and split it 5 ways. [/quote]

Why is that bizarre? We could rent the house for 10k per week in the summer.

The cost of the potential rental is somewhat irrelevant since we probably won’t rent it. It is more about the [b]relationship of an old friend who I rarely talk to or see[/b].[/quote]

She likely ghosted and disappeared due to her poverty and feelings about her own poverty [/quote]

I never considered her being in poverty. She is forever the friend who is supported by her parents but her dad passed away years ago. She has no income and gets money from her mom. Her mom is now old and also no longer in good financial standing.

Something happened to their house. Like a fire but not a fire that made the home not livable. I don’t think they have the cash to pay for repairs so they are displaced.[/quote]

With this additional information, OP, I am so much MORE in the "NO way" camp. Initially reading your OP I assumed this friend was in-between jobs having a hard time but that is not at all the case, is it? Your friend has never worked and is chronically unemployed. She is accustomed to being supported by others. Why on this good earth would you want to step in to such a mess? If you let her stay at your beach house you will be taking the place of her dad supporting her and also be opening the doors to her mother staying as well. Think about how awful it would be to ask an old lady to move out? Why would you do this? If I were your spouse I'd be livid if you put us in such a position.[/quote]

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