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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be more likely to be upset with the mutual friend who told me about the remark about my cooking, than I would with the person who didn't like my cooking.[/quote]

I’m also curious why your mutual friend decided to share that remark with you. Did they think it was for your benefit or did they have some other motive? Can you be sure that what they shared was unbiased? Why were they both talking negatively about you in the first place? Something seems off here. [/quote]
Yeah, I agree with this as well.

I just had a friend who shared that she ran into my ex-bf (breakup was...not amicable lol) while he was having a drink waiting for his new gf to finish book club lol. Like...why did you go out of your way to share that with me? It wasn't critical that I ever knew this, and it really just brought up negative feelings about how he treated me at the end of our relationship. And then I thought about it and the thing is, she's not a friend. She does things like this frequently.

I would be annoyed with the friend who badmouthed you but I'd also explore why the mutual friend felt the need to share that with you.[/quote]

And then if you randomly joined a book club that happened to be that book club and you found out your bestie knew he would be there from him you’d be mad at her for that. Just say you don’t like her and exit the friendship because you don’t deserve it[/quote]

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