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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous][quote=jsteele][quote=Anonymous]Blanket rules are just that, blanket. Devoid of any kind of intellectual understanding.

If you can only function under blanket rules you're f'd basically.

Get some minions in to moderate for you. [/quote]

Better yet, start your own forum and show me how it is done. You are obviously an expert.[/quote]

It's kind of sad that you have to post these defensive retorts, especially when the criticism aimed at you is spot on.
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I guess if you are the one making the criticism, it is not surprising that you consider it to be spot on. Forgive me if I disagree. I think your criticism is petty, inaccurate, and obnoxious. Why was criticizing Brigitte Bardot so important to you that it could not wait 48 hours and what does that say about you?
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I didn't criticize her. I stated that she abandoned her son and declared herself not "maternal". This is fact. If you choose to see it as criticism, that's your own limited perspective informing your opinion. Come on Jeff, you're a lot smarter than that.[/quote]

"Abandoned" has negative connotations. She didn't leave the child on the side of the road. You certainly didn't mean this as praise. But again, what does it say about you that you couldn't wait 48 hours to post this and now, several days later, you are still upset enough to spend your Saturday afternoon posting about it?
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What other term does one use when a mother decides not to parent a child? I think "abandoned" is the most accurate term. Let me know if you are aware of a better term, one that you prefer. [/quote]

There are several alternatives. You could say that the child's father gained full custody. You could say that she allowed her ex-husband to have full custody. You could even suggest that this is an example of the importance of women having bodily autonomy. Had Bardot had bodily autonomy, she would not have been forced to carry the child to term and custody would never have been an issue.
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Okay. Strangely, I think you are shifting this to the issue of abortion? I am sure your opinion of that is valid, and I a pro-abortion personally having had one myself, but honestly, without a deeper discussion of this Bardot family arrangement, it doesn't seem remotely relevant here.[/quote]

I suggested three alternatives to saying that she abandoned the child. You have chosen to highlight one of them. But, of course, the issue is entirely relevant. She had a child that she didn't want. If she had access to legal abortion, she would not have been forced to have the child. One unfortunate situation led to another unfortunate situation. You just want to ignore the first. 
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I'm not ignoring anything. I think honestly Jeff you're out of your depth here. Abortion is one thing. Having a baby and giving it up to the father is another. You're not a mother but you are a parent. Just take some time to think it over. Stop attacking me. All I said was that you lacked nuance. And you admitted yourself it was true. I think probably you've got way too many things to manage here. And I respect that. You're a lot better when you're arguing things about politics. Stick to what you know.[/quote]

This is pretty condescending. Before you didn't want me to moderate my own forum according to my rules and now you apparently don't want me to post on it either. Should I just hand you the passwords and let you take over?

Also, notice that you just wrote "giving it up to the father". Apparently even you are able to find alternatives to "abandon". But, I will grant you your wish. I have no interest in expending any further energy on this discussion. However, I can assure you that despite your desire, I will continue to enforce the rules of this forum, including the 48 hour rule.
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I speak as I find. I do apologize if you found me in any way condescending. That was absolutely not my intention.[b] I am a brain tumor patient who in the throes of recovery in 2023 paid $250 to your website during my recovery so that "animated ads" would cease. They did not cease and when I asked for my donation to be refunded, you ignored me. [/b]So now, I'm less afraid of critiquing the great and powerful Oz because let's fact it, you can be more than a little disappointing.[/quote]

Ah. So you have an agenda. You sound absolutely deranged fyi.[/quote]

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