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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a good relationship with my parents and would be able to just say, “you guys need a cleaner; I’ll even pay for the first visit to get it going.” In fact, I did that a few years ago and surprise surprise, they love having cleaners and a clean house. I think me paying the first time was the key to get them over their hesitation. I don’t think it is rude to be honest and offer help if it is done properly.[/quote]

We have paid for weekly maintenance  cleaning for our  ILs and an aunt for a number of years now. Family also supervises and help with the home, yard, vehicles and other tasks.

They have all managed to hang on and remain fairly healthy, mobile etc and remain at home.   Please understand that the lack of strength and chronic health conditions prevent people from cleaning their home etc.  So, it is important that the children step in and help out.  It is better for everyone in the long run and the quality of life improves for everyone.  You do not want to ever be in the nightmare situation of sending your parents to the nursing home when they are disabled and frail.   [/quote]

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