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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No and honestly I wish I would have paid more attention to his parents/family then I did. I probably wouldn't have married him.[/quote] I still would have married him but I was sooo naive. He’s the eldest son from a culture where that is very meaningful. I am constantly miles short of expectations for me (the wife of the eldest son moves in and becomes the household manager and caretaker, traditionally). I just did not understand the dynamic. [/quote] Raising my had to say same here. I was such a dummy and thought at first that they were nicer than my own parents, and I gave them so much love and energy to show that I was a good DIL and I thought I was doing a great job. I should have guessed that there were reasons for their relatively quick acceptance and embrace of me. I didn’t realize how much they were hiding and what I’d stumbled into. And then when DH divorced me I really saw their true colors. Terrifying people. Ironically, a year ago I would have jumped on this thread to say kind things about my MIL. After what she’s done to me and my children, never again. [/quote]
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