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[quote=Anonymous]Let me tell you a woman version of it. My ex-gf of age 43 has ADHD, type 2, super messy, inflexible/very rigid and have spending problem. She is more than $80K of credit card debt and a nurse's salary of $60K or so won't cut it. I took care of all the bills outside and inside including rent, going out, dresses, and other items around house and she wasn't contributing much or didn't have much to contribute. I probably could handle someone with ADHD as it is a medical issue but the thing about being rigid is what was the biggest issue. She would argue about anything small even when it is not affecting or crossing boundaries such as how I need to raise my kids(we have kids from 1st marriages) and didn't take it well when I was firm on my boundaries. Then it resulted into some kind of tantrum and everything got very toxic. I had to end it but it was and still is painful. Your choice but it doesn't end well. [/quote]
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