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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's on meds because you asked him to take them?

Then, no

He' was fine with his ADHD life sans meds before he met you.

After the honeymoon phase, he will go off the meds and blame you for making him take them
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Who hurt you to make such generalized assumptions?[/quote]

Did it hit, sweetie?

A man his age knows what he wants his life to be. He didn't choose to include ADHD meds in his life.

Making someone take meds they themselves didn't initiate on their own is a bad idea.
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A lot of people aren't diagnosed until late in life and keep thinking of their ADHD related issues as personal flaws and failures. [/quote]

That is for him to figure out

OP said she asked him to take meds[/quote]

Any friend would advise another friend to seek medical advice if they feel it can help their friend. If two people who claim to be in love can't help each other then why label it as love?[/quote]

If she broke up with him, they would be nothing to each other just like all of our exes. That's the difference between friends and people you are dating.

She needs to marry who he is not who she crafted by requesting he take meds. If they broke up, would he still take the meds?
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We don't know if he would and become a great partner to someone else or live alone. However, OP isn't casually dating him for weeks, they are together since two years or so. If ADHD or house cleaning were absolute no for her, she's been wasting his time, money and energy. [/quote]

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