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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Confront him before it’s too late.

You have nothing to lose.  Take the high road and you’ll be watching all his stuff go to her kids, and you’ll be begging for th photo albums.

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lol. Yeah, going after the inheritance is definitely the way to rebuild a relationship.[/quote]

OP. So for inheritance, I don’t necessarily care about the money itself. If he chose to leave everything to my siblings and nothing to me, I’d be fine with that because it’s staying in the family and I trust my siblings not to squander it.

But I do have a real problem if he leaves everything to her and her kids. She doesn’t work, so it’s a very real possibility she could convince him to leave her our childhood house so she has a place to stay, leave her money for her kids’ college tuition (they are high school age), etc.

I don’t think that’s unreasonable.

But more importantly, I want to be able to see my dad. I want him to be able to see his grandkids without it being an issue with her. [/quote]

[b]So, you don't necessarily want the money, but you definitely don't want her to have it. [/b]

You do realize it isn't your money, right?

You sound incredibly toxic. No doubt this also comes out when you're interacting with her (or not interacting with her).[/quote]
I don't think this is a toxic take? A lot of adult children understand they aren't entitled to an inheritance but would be mad if the money was given to dad's side chick's kids.[/quote]

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