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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Me Too has scared the S out of them.

Scott Galloway talks about issues facing young men and his related research, interesting to listen to.[/quote]
Oh lawd. Scott Galloway is like Andrew Tate in a slightly more palatable form. Please stop following these idiot bros. [/quote]

There are so many young men who are losers these days.  Why would any women to date these guys?  I have two sons, ages 26 and 24, who have many options in today’s dating market. The older one is a former Division I athlete and now works at Amazon as a senior software engineer, earning $350K a year. The younger one is also a former Division I athlete and is currently in medical school. They were raised by a tiger mom who, from the age of four through eighteen, emphasized academics, music, and sports. Beyond athletics, both of my sons can play multiple musical instruments. [b]When they were sixteen, I asked them a simple question: What do you bring to the table that would make a woman want to be your girlfriend? [/b]

Too many young men today feel entitled to relationships without putting in the effort to become the best versions of themselves.[/quote]

The bolded is something women internalize from a young age -- that they need to have something to offer in order to attract not only a partner but friends -- and many men don't, for some reason. And it's also why women tend to be happier as singletons than men are. Women are more likely to have built a worthwhile and interesting life worth living even without a man, and many men aimlessly meander through their 20s without purpose or effort and then expect a woman to come fix everything up in their 30s. But they offer nothing to these women. Many of these guys don't even offer the promise of marriage or kids, as they expect to drag their feet on those for years with no regard for women's biological clocks or desires.[/quote]

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