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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a relative who SA'd younger family members when we were kids. Now he baby sits his grand daughters and posts tons of doting photos on FB. It makes me sick because I know he is alone with them all day. I would never trust him alone with a child.[/quote]

What do you do about it?
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He didn't do it to me, but as kids his other victims told us kids and we tried to run interference on him during family visits. One victim has passed away and the others are estranged from him and a lot of the family. [/quote]

What do you do to protect the children he babysits?
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This!  I am the PP who asked why OP had children.

My neighborhood best friend was molested by her father as were her sisters. The 3 boys in the family knew nothing about it.

The girls finally spoke up when he wanted to babysit the grandchildren. The boys were in disbelief but took heed.

My friend told me she never told me when we were kids because she knew I would alert my parents and they would do something about it.

OP needs to have her husband step up. Talk to the grandfather, put him on notice that they are very sensitive about how their daughter is touched.

Then teach the daughter to SPEAK UP. Abuse goes on because people stay silent.

My own alcoholic father made a pass atme when he was drunk and I was a teen. I immediately told him to get his hands off me and then went and found my mother and told her. She didn't want to believe it but both of them were afraid after that.

They knew what I would do if he tried that sh-t again.

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