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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Husband also doesn't pay attention to his own kids, not sure if I mentioned that before. He never helps when I need it. He's too absorbed in himself and hobbies to be present, physically or mentally.

As I was doing the dishes just now, he (magically) decided to get on the ground with our youngest (a baby) - in the span of 7 minutes our baby falls over and bonks their head twice, leading to screaming/crying.

He said he wasn't looking at his phone but then also said he didn't anticipate baby falling based on the angles and the fact that babies don't understand physics. I don't get it. I'm very mad right now. This stuff doesn't happen when I am present.

I sense he is trying to make an effort now because for the last week I have been gray rocking. I'm just feeling very done with everything. And I'm beyond frustrated.[/quote]By the way, when I took my first baby to visit my childless sister when the baby was 6 months and JUST starting to sit up, my sister didn't understand the baby's cues. I turned my head away for one second and my child tipped over from sitting position and bonked her head on a chair leg.
My sister fearfully gave me the side-eye. I couldn't be mad at her, she just didn't know babies. Since then she's had a few kids and I think understands a little more about babies and motor skills.
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You're comparing your childless sister with a male parent of multiple children? Really? Your bar for men is incredibly low, how pathetic. [/quote]

OP here.

I agree, someone who doesn't have kids is not comparable to someone who has had three babies before.[/quote]

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