Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
VA Public Schools other than FCPS
Reply to "Moms, What Do You Give Teachers at Christmas?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a teacher and a parent, we don't expect or want gifts. We want your child to be on time, prepared to learn, present every day possible, and supported at home. If you really feel called to give a gift, write a kind note about how I've impacted your child. If you absolutely must put in a gift card, $5 or $10 is plenty. More than that often comes off as a bribe--seriously.[/quote] My understanding is that $20-30 is a totally normal amount for an elementary teacher holiday gift card in our district. I can't imagine it being viewed as a bribe. I also don't write a note to the teacher because, frankly, I don't know them that well. My kid writes a note. [/quote] NP: This forum is so odd. Teacher: "This" is what we want. Please don't do "that". Parent: No, you're wrong, I'm going to do "that". Every year teachers ask for notes, not money. Just write the damn note and forgo the money. [/quote] Exactly this. It feels so awkward to receive cash or gift cards. This is my profession. I don’t give my doctor a gift card. I don’t give my accountant extra cash. I want to be treated as a professional. I LOVE the hand-written cards. Love them! (And yes, I have written my doctor a card of gratitude after a rough appointment.) [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics