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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I similarly take issue with high stats kids who apply to Pitt with absolutely no intention of going because it's fun to get an acceptance in September ("it makes it official that I'm going to college," said by 4.9 GPA IB kids with higher SAT scores is pretty ridiculous!). My average good kid who loved Pitt for whom Pitt is a solid target will have to compete with those kids next year and it seems really unfair. [/quote] They have no obligation to you or your kid. Get over yourself. [/quote] Did you say that to the many people on this thread who have said it's unfair that the kid who's applying to Harvard and Princeton for fun is taking away other kids' spots? [/quote] Yes. One- you don’t know if they’re being accurate about the other kid applying for fun. They’re just trying to shame the kid. Two, if their kid was going to get rejected it was going to happen regardless- this is just scapegoating. Three - it’s a free country - if they have a .05% inclination that they might be interested they have every right to apply. [b]Why should they make a decision to accommodate some other kid?[/b][/quote] Of course, right? Let everyone be as selfish as possible—forget collaboration. Who cares, anyway? Imagine becoming a billionaire and telling people they won’t need to work anymore… because you’ve made them unnecessary. Geez, don’t we have enough selfish people already?[/quote] You are ridiculous. College admissions is not a collaborative endeavor. Shaming a kid who wants to apply where you kid is applying is what this is all about. [/quote] Who really lacks a moral compass? Usually it’s not the child—it’s the parents and the zero-sum culture such a family carry around them. Just imagine the kind of person this child will grow up to become.[/quote]
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