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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve thought about this for years. Took my ex husband and I a long time to buy a home, get two good jobs, birth three wonderful kids… all for that to be blown up by his affair. We literally had just become financially stable when everything was blown up. Now he lost his career, I barely make enough to save  anything, and kids are coping with 50/50. Quality of life went downhill for everyone. But, ex is still with AP, and I suppose they are happy (albeit not living together). I suppose it was worth it in his mind. [/quote]I'm sure it was worth it to him.  It's too bad he wasn't able to find that happiness with you and that you let a simple thing like sex destroy your otherwise blissful marriage.  [/quote]

It’s the emotional bond felt with AP as well. Obviously new sex is tantalizing but affairs aren’t always just about sex. An EA that leads to a PA still has a huge emotional component. And no, I couldn’t generate that same emotional spark as AP did. I was in his eyes the mother of his kids, the person with whom he divvied up chores and appointments and endless tasks for the kids. By divorcing, [b]ExH halfed his chores and responsibilities and got to date AP with no marriage responsibilities. It was the best of both worlds… reducing responsibilities, gaining more personal freedom, and dating a new person without having to negotiate with her the demands of child & family life. I guess there are always people here who blame the wife for the husband’s exit affair, and I understand that… but sometimes there’s just too many variables involved.[/b] [/quote]

This.

And still getting sex at home. [/quote]

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