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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh, don't ask DCUM -- filled with women who would rather stay in a miserable marriage than live in a house with fewer than 4 bedrooms, 2 baths. If divorce is inevitable (from husband's side), move on. You can model resiliency for your kids or you can model a marriage where you're both miserable. (Worth mentioning that even if you weren't miserable, trying to stay with unhappy spouse will make you both miserable.) Rent a one or two bedroom apartment in the same school zone for now. Kids don't care if you pretend you don't care either. Pretend you're one of the many feds who got laid off this year -- ruthlessly pare down spending now, including retirement investments. Focus on building up some cash, if possible. In a couple years when you've stabilized, you can look for a condo or -- further out -- a townhouse. You can do it. [/quote]
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