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[quote=Anonymous]"I’m going thru this right now with my best friend and this is the exact conversation we keep having. She’s been conditioned to think all the money he earned and saved for the last twenty years is his, as if their marriage never happened. I have to say it repeatedly: it’s already YOUR shared money." Here's the problem with this line of thinking: You somehow want to believe this while simultaneously saying that the retirement money she'd get if her parents died tomorrow would only be hers. She hasn't worked for 3ish years. He covered them 100% for those 3/13 years of marriage, yet her inheritance shouldn't be used to offset this uneven contribution?!?! It's like people want to have the rule benefit her no matter what. There needs to be a principled approach to these matters. Otherwise, it's just one of those "what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine" situations. [/quote]
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