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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh I just lost a whole post!!!! Ugh. Well I basically realized that my MIL was not focused on my as a person at all. She was purely focused on her experience of becoming a grandmother and had a lot she really specifically wanted from that. So I became the person who might interfere with her wishes, rather than a woman who was really, really struggling. I am also feeling super triggered by this thread because I have tried to push it all down but it’s important to make sure I never do this to my kids or my spouses. I WANT to remember how much it sucked so I can do better. And yes husband’s need to stand up for their wives. But MILs and mothers need to treat a woman who has just given birth with decency.[/quote]
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