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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Single (35/F). I’ve noticed many of the men I meet aren’t interested in being in a faithful/committed relationship.

Of course, I’m looking for marriage with the right person and before we can be monogamous of course it starts with baseline of being in a relationship.

what am I missing? Do some men just not want to commit? Or what does it take for single men to settle down? I hate to think all men cheat. [/quote]

Man here:  There are really two scenarios that make men want to commit: 1. He has no particular interest in commitment and has been dating around and then he meets the person who changes his mind. This happens almost immediately in my experience. (Note: he may not reveal this, I’d certainly counsel him not to in the current dating market, you can scare people off that way)  2.  He reaches the moment where he says to himself “uh oh, I need to settle down” and he then marries the person he is currently dating or the next person he dates.   You’d rather be in the first than the second situation, of course. If I were giving advice, I’d say it’s perfectly reasonable for a woman to say “no sex unless we are exclusive”; if he’s into you, that won’t be a problem. If not, probably better not to waste your time, he for the streets.  [/quote]
You might be a man, but you are not a good man. Many men fall in love and adore the woman and want to spend their lives with her. You are just a narc.[/quote]

Is that not scenario 1?[/quote]

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