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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your is old enough to be confirmed in the church, and your husband doesn’t take them to church on Christmas, you might be able to argue the religious angle if your child is truly religious and is willing to tell that to the judge that he needs to attend church on Christmas. But be prepared that the judge will just order that your ex take him to church if he asks to go. [/quote]

They're not eligible for confirmation prep until next year and confirmation itself won't be until the year after that, so the 2027-28 school year.  I don't think confirmation would be something a judge would care about. I don't know if DH would have any say in confirmation- it's up to DC to decide. Anyway, unless our housing situation changes substantially they could theoretically walk themselves to prep classes and mass if they had to if DH wouldn't take them, or just get a ride from friends' parents.

[b]They do need to attend mass at the Christmas Eve childrens' mass this year because they're signed up to be an altar server, and we were still together when we helped DC sign up so DH can't plead ignorance or disapproval.[/b] So regardless of how things shake out in the next 5 weeks, they can't be too far away and need to be there from ~4-7 pm this year. Future years, who knows. [/quote]

You are legitimately ridiculous and grasping at straws. Former altar server here. It is NOVEMBER. There is no law requiring him not to switch services. Christmas Eve is an especially easy service to get covered by another server because almost all of them ARE ALREADY THERE.

Please stop. Find acceptance. If you can’t, get a therapist. If you have a therapist, get a new one.[/quote]

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