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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'd think a bit about how to make sure that dad isnt only the "fun parent", with you getting stuck with all the hard parts. He needs to do parenting tasks too. For instance, can it be his responsibility to take the kids for 2x a year dentist appointments, eye appointments, well check ups and annual flu shots? Even smaller stuff will likely fall on you. For instance, my kid currently hates showers and gives me a really hard time about having to bathe. It would annoy me to no end to always hear that dad doesn't make her shower, when it's a reoccurring fight at our house, and that's what would likely happen with 80/20, when he couldn't get away with that with 50/50 custody. I'm sure it would be the same with homework, with it only getting done at my house because they don't get as much time with dad. So again, you end up the nag and with all the conflict at your house.[/quote]
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