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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The process is annoying, but having children in your care can be annoying and unpredictable and they will mess with your schedule. You have to show that you can handle this. Nothing you're saying would convince me.[/quote]

I think that they will actually affect my schedule far less if I can get 50/50 and know when I need to be responsible for them and then be able to focus on work the rest of the time, and if anything I will be a better parent after divorce because I will not have my focus split all of the time between two things. [/quote]

Oh no. That's not how this works. On your custody time you will be thinking about them. And you will be responsible for any surprises that come up. Like if they get sick at school, that's on you to deal with. It will no longer be your wife's job to back you up and bail you out, because you divorced her so you get no more wife-work from her. Your job will not be an excuse. So you will be thinking about your children often. You will not be compartmentalizing and passively going along with your wife as lead parenting the way married men do. [/quote]

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