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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the PP who said I have a list every day. If my partner was lounging around at home and his only obligation was to pickup the kids, I wouldn't be very happy. Give him a list. Considering he seems to have some mental deficits, keep the task list manageable and simple. Instead of clean the garage, give him vacuum X rooms, empty the dishwasher, take out the trash. If he is unable to handle this, you have bigger problems.[/quote]

OP. [b]He is not able to handle this.[/b] I don’t know what he does all day but everything and anything takes him a very long time. I think he sits with coffee and scrolls his phone until about 11am. Then walk, make lunch and clean up lunch, shower…it’s 1:30 and he’ll head to do errands but it’s a rush to get home by 3:30.

If I ask or imply “what did you DO all day?” He’ll say he took out the trash and unloaded the dishwasher. I can do both if those in about 7 minutes. It takes him 5 hours?[/quote]

Look I can kill a day at home not doing much but zoning out, reading things, scrolling socials and feeding/showering myself.  But the weird part is the bold.  He can't handle it?  What are you talking about?  If my DH was working and I was home and he asked me to run errands for him, I wouldn't be stressed about it.  I'd just do it.  Why can he not handle a list of things you'd like him to take care of this week?  That part is crazy to me.[/quote]

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