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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is NOT a go get ‘em guy and he’s always been super inefficient with time. But now he’s home all day (7:30-3:30, alone, no kids) but hasn’t done anything beyond the day to day tasks. I worry about him.

I am not leaving him a list, because he gets overwhelmed easily and doesn’t manage time well. For example, I asked him one day to drop off somethings for returns at ups but then[b] he called me stressed because he missed getting the kids off the bus. I gently apologized[/b] and said I thought maybe he’d go early but he said he was cleaning the kitchen.

I am worried about him sitting home on his phone all day. His home office (now obsolete) is a mess. I don’t want to nag him but I worry…he’s home all day and doesn’t do anything.[/quote]

This board is full of anecdotes that make me grateful for my own marriage but this has to be a top 10 example.  Give me a break, is he mentally handicapped?  He couldn't figure out how to get to UPS at any time before 3:30 and you [i]apologized [/i]to him for that?[/quote]

He gets so upset…traffic was bad, phone doesn’t hold a battery so he didn’t know the time…can’t suggest getting a charger because he doesn’t want to spend money, then he spirals.

When I say it’s hard, it’s really effin hard.[/quote]

He is either mentally ill or mentally disabled. How did he manage his job? What was it?[/quote]

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