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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are have an active social life, and I'm pretty sure we have weekends booked with plans, travel, and holiday stuff through the new year. If someone reached out to me and I wanted to see them, I would tell them just that and suggest we get together during the week or set a plan for a weekend in early 2026. If I were not that into them, I wouldn't offer an alternative and might be cagey about putting a date on the calendar at any time. [/quote] Exactly this. I do tend to think OP's thinking is on-point...if the friend wanted to get together she would offer some alternative dates. If for no other reason than what it signals. It's a bit socially inept of you all not to understand how it sounds and what it signals when you just say you're booked the next three months, period the end. Friendships take a little effort. [/quote]
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