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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: Since everyone is accusing me of passivity, they should also assume the truth: this divorce was in no way of my choosing, and was forced on me without me being any of the three A’s. So I did not choose this life; it was imposed on me.[/quote] Jesus, what “life”? By your description your kids are grown, dude. The only life change is that you’re no longer married to their mom. This has no bearing on your ability to see and be involved with your kids and grandkids, girlfriend or no. The mental gymnastics here are Olympic-level. Just go see your kids and stop finding fault with them because they’re not psyched about a woman who, by your own description, monopolizes your time and resources with your full consent and awareness. Or don’t go see them. But stop scratching your head and wondering why it’s all working so poorly. You’re playing Dad to kids who lost a parent while ignoring yours. Make it make sense. [/quote]
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