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Reply to "Dealing with GF who is a widow vs. divorced and her kids/my kids/grandkids"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it seems like you have several problems. 1) Your family doesn't like your girlfriend. 2) Your girlfriend monopolizes your time and you are afraid to stand up to her and insist on spending time with your family. 3) You're passive, avoidant, lacking social skills, whatever-- for some reason you're having a hard time overcoming the divorce and girlfriend awkwardness, planning a visit, and visiting your family on your own. Don't you see that all of these things are connected? I think if you visit your family alone a few times, that will help to improve the relationship and then they may be more accepting of you bringing your girlfriend every other time or something like that. But if you continue to make excuses and avoid making plans with your family, nothing will get better. Maybe you're afraid that if you visit alone, you'll have to talk about things you don't want to talk about? It's time you stopped avoiding things and started working them out.[/quote]
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