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Reply to "Dealing with GF who is a widow vs. divorced and her kids/my kids/grandkids"
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[quote=Anonymous]The girlfriend isn’t here to defend herself or share her perspective, so it's best to leave her out of this discussion. The responsibility for visiting his kids and grandkids rests entirely on OP. It's not as if his girlfriend is forcing him to stay away; if he truly wants to see them, he can make it happen. It's really not that difficult. OP has mentioned that his kids do not warmly welcome his girlfriend, so it would be unreasonable—and potentially against his own interests—to include her in these visits. If she isn't welcome, she won’t enjoy herself, and she might resent him for insisting that she come along. Therefore, if OP wants to see his kids and grandkids, it makes sense for him to schedule time for those visits without involving his girlfriend. She’ll obviously understand if OP has any communication skills. [/quote]
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