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Reply to "Dating must-haves, wish lists and dealbreakers"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of you sound like crazy old trolls. Why are you so upset about the 40 year old who has her pick of guys? Why isn't she allowed to have standards or preferences?[/quote] Men get triggered by that. If a woman has standards, she's damaged goods, delusional, and should accept whatever crumbs are thrown her way. But if a woman doesn't have standards, any relationship problems are her fault because "you picked him!". If a woman has kids, she shouldn't date. But we have the male loneliness epidemic because women aren't dating. What's really going on is cognitive dissonance. These men aren't being picked by women. They can't admit that *they're* the men people say "well you picked him!" about, and rather than rising to meet the standard, they expect women to lower their own standards. But in their own minds, they're good guys, despite them not really doing much with their lives or having any sort of emotional maturity.[/quote]
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