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[quote=Anonymous]I have a family member who has gotten themselves into a real financial pickle by making bad choices. I have the resources to help them, but if I did, I would just be enabling their bad choices and disincentivize better choices. If my DIL were refusing to work when my son was at home full time due to job loss, I would want her to get a job before they asked me for money. I would absolutely not offer them cash—it would just help them keep making the same dumb mistakes. [/quote]
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