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[quote=Anonymous]It’s a season. His dad won’t be around forever. 
Agree with PP that spouse should take the kids once a month to see grandad. 
Also agree with PP to consider if grandad should be moved closer. Are friends or others from the community coming to see him or is he in the same place as friends? I’m sure there is a cost difference btwn there and this area, too. But a consideration.

My parents definitely did this. My mom and her sister alternated Fridays to take my grandmother to her hair appt and pick up groceries and have lunch. My dad traveled for work, but then every weekend or every other, he drove to his parents (hour each way). When we were still at home (teens) he did not pressure us to go every time, but we probably went every other time. And visits weren’t that long. So frequency versus duration is also a consideration. 
You have to be willing to be flexible on some things - you like to pick out your produce? I understand. Order all your other goods and just run by for produce or be willing to accept that a couple of times a month the produce might not be perfect.

It’s a challenging season. Best to you. [/quote]

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