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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm pretty sure that my ex's mistress did a bunch of the work for our divorce. I wasn't doing it, and prior behavior suggests he wasn't doing it, so it must have been her. OP I assume he has a side piece? Maybe you could enlist her help. She's very motivated to detach him from you so she can attach herself in your place. [/quote] OP and unfortunately DH's side piece is his beloved all-consuming job. I wish he had a mistress because maybe she could push him to get this stuff done. Twisted to say so and I'm sorry that you had to go through that but I can see so many upsides to having the involvement of one if they were motivated and efficient.[/quote] Get his elderly mom to help. She’s probably used to it too. [/quote] She’s caring for others and is multiple flights away. The two of us were closer than STBX was to her but my assumption from her lack of contact with me since the early days of STBX’s decision is that she is staying uninvolved and may even be in denial that this is happening, if that’s even possible. She has not checked in on her grandchildren since the first or second week which has really hurt them, because they know STBX has gone to see her multiple times.[/quote]
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