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[quote=Anonymous]While your reaction here is 100% understandable, you really, really need to re-focus your energy. There is life beyond this divorce and you want to be able to live that with as few regrets as possible. So, 1) get a great attorney and get everything you can financially. Leverage the fact that he wants to be divorced as quickly as possible in order to get things you want. Like, do you want to stay in your house? Are there stocks or other assets you want? Focus. You are like between 50 and 60 years old. The rest of your financial life is on the line here. Act like it. 2) Get a great therapist. Don't lie to your kids but also don't burden them with your emotions. They may want a relationship with their dad. Learn how to accept that so that they will still want a relationship with you. [/quote]
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