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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PPs who noted that OP's girlfriend doesn't seem like a good catch anyway. I hope he can see that he's better off without her. I'm divorced and asked for no alimony and the only child support I got was that my ex had to continue contributing into a 529 for our child. That's because I earn enough money to not need my ex's money to live my life. Sure we split our marital assets, but that was built with money that we each put in during our marriage. IOW, it was my money that I earned. Most women who weren't contributing somewhat equally during their previous marriage (are are thus receiving alimony) are going to be looking for a man who has as much income available to spend on them as their first husband because they'll lose their alimony and possibly some of the child support if she lives with/marries him. If you date a woman who is receiving alimony, she basically works for her ex husband and is still financially dependent on him, which would bother me if I were her new partner. That whole arrangement is really distasteful and gross, IMO, and it's baggage that nobody needs to take on. OP should continue trying to date divorced moms. But he needs to find the ones who themselves are working long hours (between work and home life) like all the other adults who are making their own way in the world. Those women won't complain about him being busy because they'll be too busy to notice.

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Wow that was a lot of writing to say you didn't read the OP. She's not receiving alimony. [/quote]

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