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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ehhh, in the process of a really shitty divorce and his gym time definitely played into it. 
“Do you want to get lunch today?” “No, I’m going to gym.” (Rinse and repeat a million times)
“I’m going to get stocking stuffers on my lunch break, can you help?” “”No, I have to go to the gym”
“Do you have time to pick up milk and eggs?” “No, I’m going to the gym”

Rinse and repeat. 
I eventually found a gym where I could take a 5 am class because that was the ONLY time I could find for myself- and it wasn’t even noted that mom’s gym time meant losing sleep. Everything else just needed to get done. [/quote]

I could be wrong but I imagine the gym was a red herring in your situation. Your husband didn't like spending time with you, didn't want to help with the kids, and didn't want to help around the house. The fact that he was going to the gym during those times is a moot point. He could have been on his phone, having an affair, playing golf, sleeping, it doesn't really matter. [/quote]

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