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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can confront him with the voice recording, but you cannot use it in court if you recorded it in a state that requires two party consent.

What's he going to do to you if you show it to him in private? Nothing. [/quote]

OP: I really need to know if this a route someone has taken. I don’t have any legit proof and he will want to portray me as crazy. The AP is a colleague and it is a very sensitive situation. [/quote]

What are you trying to accomplish? You don’t need him to acknowledge any of this to divorce him. It won’t matter with respect to any financials. YOU know. Now, you just have to decide what to do. Personally, I would likely play the tape as part of the “I know and you can cut off contact immediately and get into therapy or I will strongly consider filing for divorce”. I think him filing a police report is less likely than me winning the lottery — because then the police would hear the tape.

But the whole premise of my marriage is fidelity and partnership. I can afford to split and keep the house myself. I can care for the kids on my own if I needed to (although I would expect him to be a super involved dad). I don’t need someone who would lie to my face repeatedly. Who cares if he tells people you are crazy? You just need to figure out what matters and stick to it.[/quote]

Her earlier post explained that she wants to use the recording to extort a more favorable financial settlement out of him.[/quote]

Not financial-just to use it to make him feel guilty and going therapy..it’s sad that our relation was based on friendship-it’s a 26 year long marriage![/quote]

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