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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- everyone saying it's not my problem. I understand he is not my problem but in my mind, stability for my children is my problem. For example, if he moves to a studio far away and can't drive, then does he stop having custody of the kids? That would be so traumatic for them.

I have all my savings. He drained his savings to pay for his dui.[/quote]

The kids will adjust and if it causes them distress, that is HIS fault. I feel like it would help you a little to be a little more objective here. Yes, his actions could hurt the kids. Try to think of that as if they had an accident that caused them physical pain. You cannot stop the accident from having happened. All you can do is support them through it.

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DP, but I'd also add that it's good for children to see that actions have consequences. Their dad f***ed up, is being punished for it, and will hopefully make it right. Trying to lie to them and shield them from his OWN actions is kind of messed up. [/quote]

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