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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- everyone saying it's not my problem. I understand he is not my problem but in my mind, stability for my children is my problem. For example, if he moves to a studio far away and can't drive, then does he stop having custody of the kids? That would be so traumatic for them.

I have all my savings. He drained his savings to pay for his dui.[/quote]

Look, if you wanted to take care of him, you should have stayed married. Right now you need to focus on YOUR household which is you and your children.

[b]Inviting an unemployed man with a DUI move into your basement is a horrible life decision.

Taking your child out of daycare to stay with an unemployed man with a DUI is a terrible life decision.[/b]

The above are not controversial. They’re not opinions. You need to make sure you’re financially separate from this man and focus on YOU. And your children’s unemployed, alcoholic father with a DUI sees them a little less while he gets his shit together, that’s not a bad thing.

Make an appointment with a lawyer NOW to talk about your divorce options. But for the love of god, do not  let this man keep dragging you down. 
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Yes to all but especially the bolded. [/quote]

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