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[quote=Anonymous]You could contact that attorney again and ask her for a referral. Tell her this is still unresolved and you understand she can't represent you, so who would she recommend.

Also, go to an Al-Anon meeting or something. You are so suffering the dynamics of entanglement with an addict and you can't see that clearly without help. You're beating yourself up when to a total stranger it's clear that you having to get legal and financial separation from this person. But you've allowed it to go on for years because of emotional entanglement. (Not that you still love him - but you feel badly for him, feel concern for him, blah blah blah). Those are CLASSIC addiction dynamics.

You would be able to see this very clearly if a friend was telling you this story - so try to see it that clearly for yourself.

Good luck. I don't mean to sound cold, at all, but I've dealt with a ton of addiction in my family. It's taken me years of therapy to manage my own ability to disentangle.

Hope you can get some quick, full legal resolution OP!!!! [/quote]

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