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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're hurt and angry OP because your sex life is miserable but your wife obviously still has an active libido. She just doesn't have an interest in you.  So you're trying to make this into "cheating" to justify how you're feeling.  This isn't cheating.  It's weird.  And obviously there are issues in your marriage.  It's fine to talk to her that this made you uncomfortable. It's fine to discuss your sex life.  But if you accuse her of cheating, nothing constructive will happen. [/quote]

OP here.

You are reading way too much into it, maybe you're projecting?  I never accused her of cheating, I actually thought it was funny that they did it. Masturbation is not an uncomfortable topic in our house, everyone does it, no big deal.  I made the statement of " it's funny that since it is 2 Women, no one would have an issue, but if I did it with a female, there would be an issue" and she said there would be.  I thought that was interesting and wanted other opinions.  Maybe "cheating" was the wrong word. She said it was more common to talk about it (and even do it together) than I'd think, so I figured I'd ask if it was.  Based on responses, it does not look like it[/quote]
"I did say it’s slightly cheating"
You accused your wife of cheating on you by pleasuring herself. I hope you hold yourself in the same contempt when you're taking care of yourself. [/quote]

The slightly cheating part is that
Other person knew DW was taking care of herself.
Other person knew timing of it (happening at the same time)
Other person knew the kink that inspired it.

Dw can do whatever but let’s leave other person out of the details of when/why.[/quote]
"You accused your wife of cheating on you by pleasuring herself. [b]I hope you hold yourself in the same contempt when you're taking care of yourself[/b]."
So is your response a big fat NO to the bolded? If you ever watch porn or use instagram pics to get yourself off, you have absolutely no leg to stand on here. Sounds like youre jealous of the vibrator and thats never a good look for a man. [/quote]

You know different people are answering here right? The OP didn’t type the reply you’re quoting.

Just to be sure, watching porn is the exact same as texting someone before, during, and after in your view? You’d be ok with your DH texting a girl while getting off?[/quote]

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