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[quote=Anonymous]Seems like your Mom is juggling - as all moms do, for their whole lives on all fronts. How sad that she not only is still juggling but is being criticized by her adult working mom daughter. How sad that you can't commiserate w/ her. How sad that you can't manage your own juggling and boundaries so that you don't feel like you're putting everything on hold for her during visits in a way that you don't like. Are you justified? You're allowed to feel however you need to feel. Are you being fair to your mother? Doesn't really seem like it. It reads like you're responding more from the perspective of a child, rather than a fellow working mother who also wants to prioritize quality time w/ family. Just my two cents... (as a working mother, who had a working mother/grandmother until she passed away a couple of years ago).[/quote]
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