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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you both let your DD down. If he was angry, you should have taken her. Surely you have frozen breast milk for your toddler.[/quote] Way to blame the victim [/quote] The victim is the child(ren). But aside from that, the fact that dad was wrong doesn't mean mom wasn't also wrong. Lots has caused this dynamic and led up to the reactions in this moment and you can't go back in time to get therapy right then. So you have to do what's possible right then. In the moment, my priorities would have been getting older child medical care, getting older child emotional care, and then the toddler. That's why I said take the toddler in the car because DH was failing the first two. (Skip school or whatever tomorrow if he's exhausted because that's less important than priorities 1 and 2.) OP was more comfortable blaming him than taking charge. [/quote]
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