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[quote=Anonymous]He’s not doing the bare minimum of being an adult/husband/father. Baths, kids laundry and dishes were the easiest tasks for my husband so he asked to do those. He took on zero mental load, bill paying, and extremely minimal parenting. I think he did ok w baths and kids laundry, but was terrible with dishes (thought he could wait till Saturday to do them!) Ultimately I separated because he was making my life impossibly difficult. We had a major medical issue of a family member where he was so incompetent and uncaring. The signs were there all along. If he couldn’t do little easy things, how could he possibly handle something bigger and so important? He was worse than the kids at picking up after himself, being appreciative, etc and I didn’t want that example for my kids esp my son. I didn’t see a way to get him to care and be motivated to be a good responsible husband, if he didn’t want to be that himself. It was a long difficult losing battle.[/quote]
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