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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you not notice long ago that he is like that? Would have driven me crazy. Now figure why or how to fix it. I wouldn't bother even. Easier to do those things on my own under a minute.[/quote] [b]Essentially, I never really needed him before we had a baby[/b], which made it easy to be in love. And then we had a baby and I needed him, and he suuuuuucked. Then the kids got old enough to where I don’t need him any more, again, which makes it easy for me to be indifferent about him altogether. [/quote] How is this possible? Did you just do all the grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, hosting, planning, present buying, etc.? Before we had kids together my husband and I lived together so we shared all the household responsibilities, we had dogs (each brought one into the relationship) so we shared pet care duties, we traveled so we shared planning and executing that, we celebrated holidays together so we shared buying presents, etc. I don't get how you couldn't need your spouse before having a baby with them. [/quote]
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