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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband is lazy. Either discuss w him or plan to deal as you don’t seem like you would consider divorce. [/quote] The older I get, the more convinced I am that there is no such thing as lazy. Laziness is simply a struggle that you cannot see. Depression, ADHD, both, family trauma they haven’t processed, etc. approach with compassion. Nobody actually enjoys letting people down. They are often dissociating and beating themselves up for not being able to do what is expected of them. [/quote] I’m the opposite - the older I get, the more I realize it’s laziness and just plain selfishness. I’ve known so many people who claimed ADHD/depression/trauma/etc while married, yet as soon as their spouse divorced them, they suddenly got it together and were able to function. Amazing what consequences like “you’ll be evicted” or “you’ll starve” can do. [/quote] Trauma. Everyone has “trauma” now. [/quote]
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