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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you pushed him to have more kids than he wanted, and you don’t work, and now you want him to share in parenting and you’re surprised he’s not into it?

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OP here. No, having the amount of kids that we do was a joint decision. No one was forced into anything.

[b]Also, I don't understand how a parent, male or female, is excused from parenting duties, no matter their feelings? Guess I'm "old school" there..? 🤷🏼‍♀️[/b]

Lastly, I work my tail off (to put it lightly) to take care of all of our kids. Hardest f*****g job ever and no, I don't get paid but they doesn't take away from the fact that I *do* work, it just isn't outside the home, so it's always dismissed.[/quote]

The way you've structured things, his duty is to struggle to bring in 100% of the financial resources your family needs to survive. Your duty is to manage the household and children. If you expect him to share your load, are you planning to bring in money?
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It’s perfectly reasonable to say between the hours of X and Y (husband’s work hours — or you can say for X number of hours per week if he doesn’t work a steady schedule) he works for his job to bring in income and OP works at the house for the household and the other hours are divided between them to handle excess household stuff.  [/quote]

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